Who would have thought that communication could be so complex?! The words that leave our mouth is all that matters, right? Well that is not entirely true. There are three parts to communication: Verbal (or our words), non-verbal (gestures and body language) and our tone. Actually, studies show that non-verbal communication is 51%, tone is 35% and verbal is 14% of overall communication. Its crazy to think that more than just my words are interpreted by others. And if you think that is complicated, add on the fact that each of us interprets very differently. In my class we discussed how we each have our own code, in a sense. This can make (does make) life and relationships quite complicated.
We all desire to be understood. In our families we need to be able to have good communication skills in order to help and love one another. If we can take the time to truly understand others, and make as clear as possible our own concerns and desires, we can help the communication in our families. Many conflicts arise because of miscommunication. I can even see this with my roommates now. The way something is said with a certain tone, or glare, can entirely change the meaning of a sentence, Its crazy isn't it!?!
This communication is daily, but there are also times when more in depth conversations need to take place. When big decisions are made in a family, things need to be discussed. But how do we go about it? Are we focused on compromising so that all parties are satisfied to the fullest, or do we look for a solution that is for the greater good, or rather, what God wants. If each member of the family (husband, wife, son, daughter) can be open and express love for each other, coming to a consensus rather than a compromise will better family life. If we can learn to make decisions with the will of God in mind, we will, over time, loose selfish desires and be more willing to do His will.
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